The Most significant contributor to disorganized attachment is being frightening as a parent to your child!
Parents need to increase their empathy for their child/ren’s needs; being to be:
- Welcomed when he/she comes to you
- Delighted in
- Having his/her feelings organized
Increased empathy plays a vital role in developing secure attachment because it leads to more awareness, responsiveness, and “no nonsense tenderness.”
~ Quoted from: Circle of Security