Luister

Leer jou kind ken deur regtig na hom/haar te luister – na sy/haar verwagtinge, drome, vrese en begeertes!

Deur aandagtig te luister wys jy ook jou respek en waardering vir jou kind.  Luister eers deeglik en ‘mirror’ dan wat jy gehoor het terug na jou kind, voordat jy dalk oorhaastig onregverdige oordele uit spreek, of raad en ontoepaslike oplossings gee.  Die laasgenoemde gaan jou kind ontmoedig om in die toekoms sy/haar gevoelens met jou te deël.

About Helouise Steenkamp

I'm a 45 plus, Devoted Wife and Mother. Adonai has blessed us with two Amazingly Wonderful Sons. We have had the privilege of being Place of Safety parents for 1 1/2 years and there after foster parents to a Darling Princess for 5 years. She was reconciled with her biological parents in Dec'14. Our hearts are still aching from the loss, but we know that as we trust Adonai with our salvation, so we can trust Him with her future. We welcomed our new 4 year old foster child on 05JUN'15.
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